10 10 Men/Sex

The ugly truth behind sending penis pictures

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Let me set the scene for you.

My ex boyfriend (from a few years ago) has, for reasons I cannot work out, suddenly decided to get back in touch and wants to speak every day. We didn't have a bad split and he still makes me laugh and I am happy to be friends...but that's it. Just friends.

You're not alone, it's normal if your minds wander off while having sex and here's why


your laundry. Not very sexy, but totally normal!

Our brains are our biggest sex organs and need just as much love and (mental) caressing to get into the mood. But that doesn’t mean it can just switch off and stop thinking about everything else in your life.